Ice Day


No school, blue skies, and melting ice. The kids and I ventured out into the magic. The soundtrack of dripping water and gently cracking ice, punctuated by exclamations of wonder,* was sublime. (*Soundtrack also featured fighting siblings, let’s be real.)



As far as I can tell, the whole town is blanketed in ice. I can only confirm this as far as my own yard, though, for that’s as far as I was willing to venture today. An ice storm, of course, is a photographer’s dream, but today I was more thankful for my senses than for my camera. (I was thankful for my camera too, but it’s what I couldn’t quite capture that made being outside for a bit this afternoon feel magical.) So much beauty, so quiet, so refreshing.

To Read List


A few months ago I decided I wanted to use my to read list on Goodreads differently. Instead of using it as a junk drawer for every book that ever remotely caught my interest or was liked and recommended by a friend, I wanted to try to get closer to limiting it to books I actually do intend to track down and read. At that time it had something like 277 books on it, and when I went through and deleted all of the ones that, let’s face it, I am probably not actually going to read, it was down to 75, give or take a few.  I thought it might be a fun challenge to take whatever books remained on January 1 and make that my reading list for the coming year. I have since remembered, though, that that is completely unrealistic for my spontaneous nature and ever-changing interests and attention span. Still, I do intend to make a serious effort to knock most, if not all, of them out (or remove them from the list). As of this morning, my list holds 57 books (and my currently reading list has 7 more titles today). I figure I will read about 60 books this year, but obviously many will be ones I come across throughout the year. I’m a sucker for a beautiful cover at the library, a recommend from a trusted reader friend or a podcast, a book club selection, a random find at the bookstore or garage sale, a nostalgic grab from my parents’ basement, the next book in a series, a book one of my kids wants to read together. You get the idea.

So, with all those disclaimers, here is my ridiculously long and deliberately unrealistic current to read list for 2017 in no particular order:

  • The remaining books in Louise Penny’s Inspector Gamache series (I’m ready to start number 8 10)
  • The remaining books in Madeline L’Engle’s Wrinkle in Time Quintet (I’ve only read A Wrinkle in Time, the first one)
  • Till We Have Faces, by C.S. Lewis
  • To Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee

(the rest of this list is my Goodreads to-read list as of today)

  • Humble Roots: How Humility Grounds and Nourishes Your Soul, by Hannah Anderson
  • Columbine, by Dave Cullen
  • You Are What You Love, The Spiritual Power of Habit, by James K. A. Smith
  • Trouble I’ve Seen: Changing the Way the Church Views Racism, by Drew G. I. Hart
  • The System: The Glory and Scandal of Big-Time College Football, by Jeff Benedict
  • Brave Companions, by David McCullough
  • Lab Girl, by Hope Jahren
  • The Spirit of Food: Thirty-four Writers on Feasting and Fasting Toward God, by Leslie Leyland Fields
  • The War That Saved My Life, by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley
  • You Must Change Your Life: The Story of Rainer Maria Rilke and Auguste Rodin, by Rachel Corbett (lost interest, at least for now)
  • The Underground Railroad, by Colson Whitehead
  • Prophetic Lament, A Challenge to the Western Church, by Soong-Chan-Rah
  • Swing Time, by Zadie Smith
  • Homegoing, by Yaa Gyasi
  • The Night Circus, by Erin Morgenstern
  • When Breath Becomes Air, by Paul Kalanithi
  • The Lies of Locke Lamora, by Scott Lynch
  • Assimilate or Go Home: Notes from  Failed Missionary on Rediscovering Faith, by D. L. Mayfield
  • Anne of Green Gables, by L. M. Montgomery
  • Shtum, by Jem Lester
  • This Is Only a Test, by B. J. Hollars
  • Cry, the Beloved Country, by Alan Paton
  • A Kim Jong-Il Production: The Extraordinary True Story of a Kidnapped Filmmaker, His Star Actress, and a Young Dictator’s Rise to Power, by Paul Fischer (started audio book but realized I’m just not as interested as when I first heard about it)
  • The Journalist and the Murderer, by Janet Malcolm
  • The Wednesday Wars, by Gary D. Schmidt
  • Morningside Heights, by Cheryl Mendelson
  • Ballad of the Whiskey Robber: A True Story of Bank Heists, Ice Hockey, Transylvanian Pelt Smuggling, Moonlighting Detectives, and Broken Hearts, by Julian Rubinstein
  • Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life, by Amy Krouse Rosenthal
  • My Life in France, by Julia Child
  • On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness, by Andrew Peterson
  • A Girl from Yamhill, by Beverly Cleary
  • Big Little Lies, by Liane Moriarty
  • The Company She Keeps, by Mary McCarthy
  • Time and Again, by Jack Finney
  • The Power of One, by Bruce Courtenay
  • Fierce Convictions: The Extraordinary Life of Hannah More–Poet, Reformer, Abolitionist, by Karen Swallow Prior
  • The Cranes Dance, by Meg Howrey
  • The Pearl That Broke Its Shell, by Nadia Hashimi
  • Kitchen, by Banana Yoshimoto (read Moshi Moshi by same author)
  • Mosquitoland, by David Arnold (abandoned after first chapter)
  • Found: A Story of Questions, Grace, and Everyday Prayer, by Micha Boyett
  • My Bright Abyss: Meditation of a Modern Believer, by Christian Wiman
  • Jayber Crow, by Wendell Berry
  • A Lantern in Her Hand, by Bess Streeter Aldrich
  • Everything You Ever Wanted: A Memoir, by Jillian Lauren
  • Notes from the Tilt-a-Whirl: Wide-Eyed Wonder in God’s Spoken World, by N. D. Wilson
  • Cutting for Stone, by Abraham Verghese
  • Miz Lil and the Chronicles of Grace, by Walter Wangerin Jr.
  • Night, by Elie Wiesel
  • Ranger Confidential: Living, Working, and Dying in the National Parks, by Andrea Lankford
  • Spiritual Friendship: Finding Love in the Church as a Celibate Gay Christian, by Wesley Hill
  • Walk Two Moons, by Sharon Creech
  • The Supper of the Lamb: A Culinary Reflection, by Robert Farrar Capon
  • The Magicians, by Lev Grossman
  • The Seven Good Years, by Etgar Keret

Favorite Books of 2016


I was a reader as a kid and through college. After grad school, I worked in publishing for something like fifteen years, and during those years I did surprisingly little reading for fun. And then when my kiddos were really little, I think there were a couple of years in there that I finished zero books (not counting board books). For the last couple of years, though, I have been finding time to read, and I now think of myself as a reader again. In fact, I can think of at least twice in the last month (this busy month of holidays and family birthdays) that friends have asked me how I am or what’s going on and what has first come to mind is how my reading life is going (very well, thank you!). I finished sixty-two books this year, and though I am in the middle of several more, with only about five hours left in the year, I think sixty-two is going to be the final count. (January 2017 will probably start off pretty well as I’m set to finish three or four this next week.)

I read a lot of good books this year and only a couple of real clankers. These are my top 10 (in chronological order) and some honorable mentions:

Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption, by Bryan Stevenson ** One of the reasons I don’t write book reviews more often is because I really do find it so hard to summarize books. Stevenson is the executive director of the Equal Justice Initiative in Montgomery, Alabama, and here he tells (part of) his story of fighting against racial bias and inhumanity in the criminal justice system. The book is heartbreaking and infuriating, and I don’t think you could be unchanged after reading it. (I own this in paperback, but I think I loaned it out and I can’t remember to whom. No worries. I’m glad it’s out there.)

11/22/63, by Stephen King ** This was my first Stephen King, and it was so enjoyable. It is the story of a man who travels back in time to try to undo the assassination of JFK. It was thought-provoking and such a good story. Also, it was over 800 pages, and I wasn’t the least tempted to skim any of the storylines. If I ever went on the What Should I Read Next? podcast, this would make the “3 books I love” list (actually, that podcast is where I learned of it in the first place). I checked this baby out from the library.

Brown Girl Dreaming, by Jacqueline Woodson ** This was another book I learned of from the WSIRN podcast. It’s a prose-poetry memoir of a childhood in South Carolina and New York. I listened to it on audiobook (checked out from the library) read by the author. It is mesmerizing, and I would put in my top 10 favorites of all time. I keep meaning to read the print version too.

East of Eden, by John Steinbeck ** And this is another book that earns a spot in my top 10 all-time faves, probably even top 5. Beautiful writing. I probably couldn’t recount the plot exactly, but I can’t get the overall story out of my head. I listened to this on Audible, and I plan to get a print copy to re-read as well.

Kitchens of the Great Midwest, by J. Ryan Stradal ** This book was just fun. Something about it reminded me of Where’d You Go, Bernadette, by Maria Semple, a favorite from last year (but oh I hated this year’s Today Will Be Different, by Maria Semple). I don’t know that this would be a great book club selection, as I don’t know what you would discuss, but it was fun and foodie and quirky and totally enjoyable. I checked this one out from the library and have recommended it often throughout the year.

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, by Betty Smith ** I have started this several times and for unknown reasons have never finished until now. I loved the characters, loved the story, loved the book. I did listen to it on Audible, and I think that made the difference in getting me over the hump.

A Wrinkle in Time, by Madeline L’Engle ** Why have I never read this?!? I adored this and wish I had found it when I was eight or so. I will be introducing my kids to the series sooner rather than later. We found the third book in the series in a Little Free Library, so we went to the library to check out the first book and start at the beginning.

The Boys in the Boat, by Daniel James Brown ** Another Audible listen, another all-time top 5 (and my number 1 audiobook). I can’t stop raving about this book. I loved every single bit of it, from the story of Joe Rantz’s life to the descriptions of George Yeoman’s workshop and the wood used in the boats to the call of the races. I listened to much of this while driving, and during the description of the races, I was white-knuckling it just as if it were live. I have to think this book was enhanced by having it read by Edward Herrmann.

Another Brooklyn, by Jacqueline Woodson ** Yes, another by Jacqueline Woodson. I said to a friend that this was my favorite novel I read this year, and that still holds close to true/true-ish. I don’t think it will make my favorite books of all time, but it I really did love this one. It’s short, and I finished it in less than a day. I read the print version from the library and plan to listen to the audio version again before my book club discusses it next month.

Born a Crime, by Trevor Noah ** This is one of my favorite memoirs I’ve ever read (er, listened to). Read by the author, it tells of his childhood in South Africa. I had heard and read all kinds of good things, and it did not disappoint. I can’t say that it will have the lasting power of, say, East of Eden or The Boys in the Boat or even A Wrinkle in Time, and maybe it’s because it’s the last one I finished, but if you asked me right now, today, what my favorite read of 2016 was, I’d give the nod to Born a Crime.

Honorable Mention

The Bone Clocks, by David Mitchell ** This was the most challenging book I read this year, and it’s not for everyone. I keep thinking, though, that it’s just good literature.
The Paris Wife, by Paula McLain ** I had thought that I was going to have to admit that I like the idea of historical fiction more than I like the actual thing of historical fiction, but this book gave me hope that I can hold onto the claim of loving historical fiction. It sent me briefly into an Ernest Hemingway phase, but I think I remain not a big fan of Hemingway.
Coming Clean, by Seth Haines ** This is the story of Haines’s first thirty days sober after becoming addicted to alcohol while his youngest child was seriously ill. The subtitle is “A Story of Faith” and I loved it for its perspective.
Modern Romance, by Aziz Ansari ** Eye-opening and fascinating. I really enjoyed the audio version read by the author (with some funny asides just for the audiobook).
Lonesome Dove, by Larry McMurtry ** Yet another audiobook. I don’t know that I would have gotten through 945 pages of print, but I was completely caught up in the story and was sad to have it end “so soon.”

December 25


I thought the DPP ended on Christmas Eve. Silly me. So here’s one more, along with Jason’s description (I also like his pic better).

December Photo Project 2016

And just like that another December Photo Project is in the books. I enjoyed my return to posting after such a long, long hiatus. Over the next few weeks, I’ll post some of the shots I loved that just didn’t make the cut for photo of the day. For now, here’s my DPP 2016 all in one place. *ETA a pic from December 25 too.

December 24


Sweet little buddy watching his older brother and cousins play football on this unseasonably warm Christmas Eve. Maybe next year, Dane.

December 23


We did our family Christmas Eve traditions on Christmas Eve Eve this year. Tempura (and to make it all the more special, Auntie Brook joined us this year), new jammies for all, and sleeping under the Christmas tree.

December 22


This one missed the holiday singalong at school to get two cavities filled. Double whammy! But he did get to watch ESPN, so I think he was okay with it.

December 21


Taking in the sunset with my favorites on the shortest day of the year.